Self-Love Diet Tip: Strengthen Your Inner Observer

Going through the book Self-Love Diet: The Only Diet That Works with my therapist taught me one of my favorite tools, “Strengthen your inner observer.”

I learned from reading this that when I was active in my eating disorder or my addiction that I couldn’t separate my identify from my thoughts.

The “ed thoughts” took over and my logical mind didn’t challenge it.

But going through this book and practicing strengthening my inner observer has really helped me.

What I learned was letting go of negative thoughts was very hard, but possible.

That is how I came up with the idea of “roaring back.” Strengthening my inner observer helps me to rooooooaaaaar back.

I realized that my thoughts/diagnoses didn’t have to define me. I was not my eating disorder. I am not my addiction. I am not my low-esteem, depression or anything negative. I am a person who suffers from that and someone who will and can survive. I HAVE SURVIVED AND  I WILL CONTINUE TO SURVIVE!!

Strengthening that inner observer has helped me to deal with that inner critic that likes to come out.

I challenge my inner critic with acts of self-love, from eating chocolate to making silly YouTube videos, from making someone smile to playing with my cat.

Sometimes I honestly forget how to be strong, and this tip has really shown me that I can simply challenge my critical thoughts, fight them and definitely roar back at them.


Stay Awesome,


Strengthen Your Inner Observer

Registration for Reclaiming Your Purpose is open! The Self-Love Diet online book study begins September 1st. Register Now. | May’s self-love writing prompt is Body Gratitude. You can share your self-love journey with the Love Warrior Community by submitting your self-love posts to be published here on Self-Love Warrior, or you can share them on the Self-Love Diet Facebook page.


About Sunny With A Chance of Me

Hey, I'm Lila, 23, Musician, Dance, Photography, Pre- Med Major. GCU. Singer, Activist, Believer, Awesomesauce, Self-Love Warrior Intern. I am Recovering, Inspiring, Thriving, Surviving, Conquering and Zesting others with my charm. This is blog of my recovery, my journey, and my life. From Self-Hate to Self- Love! SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO LOOK YOUR LION IN THE FACE AND ROOOOOOAAAAAAARRRR BACK!
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